I can’t believe it…I’m 40. My mom used to say that she couldn’t see what her life would be like past 25. And now, I’m 40. I can remember the excitement of 13, 18 and 21, the tears at 20 when I was no longer a teenager and the freak-outs that came with the realization that I was 30-how old! And now this? Strange though it may seem, I’m not as concerned as I was at 20 or 30. Now, I feel lucky…lucky to have made it to this time in my life and finally, actually able to feel comfortable in my own skin. But let’s face it, to the majority of the population with whom I’ve spent my life working…I’m old! I know, I know, 40 is the new 30, right? Now I look at the 70-year old couple holding hands on the boardwalk and smile hoping that I get to experience that one day. And I sit in amazement at the grandparents I know who are enjoying life at the age of 100. Truly, age is really just a number. I think this is the first birthday that made me start to think about that. Reflective and happy…..this is a special year and I’m so very excited to be spending it enjoying white sand, crystal clear blue of the Indian Ocean and paradise in a beach bungalow in the Maldives!
I’ve been lucky to be on the planet for 40 years. I’ve been lucky to not have to worry about clean water, safe food, health insurance or a roof over my head. I have been given the gift of family, wonderful friends, a formidable education and the opportunity of choice. I’ve worked with some fabulous people and count myself lucky to have close friends around the world. I’ve visited more than half of the states in the United States and over fifty-five countries. I’ve stood at the kotel, swam in the Great Barrier Reef, jumped into Devil’s Pool and traveled around the world twice. I went on a short trip to New Zealand and met a guy who changed my life. Our first date was in Hong Kong, he proposed at Wicked in Australia, we got married in New York and honeymooned around the world. I’ve been feeling quite pensive and reflective these past few months. Is this middle age?
The babes of 1974 turn 40 this year. Gone are the days of teenage drama (unless you count our friends who now have children entering this phase) and college all-nighters. Now we enter the phase of reunions, not knowing the newest artist on the radio and finding out if we need reading glasses. It’s funny though, the more people I talk to, the more I hear, ‘I feel the best I ever have’ and I can’t agree more. Thoughts and interests continue to change as life and time continues to march on. On my list of things to do before I turned forty, all I could think to put was ‘wear blue nail polish on my toes’… check! Thank you to all those people who are and have been a part of my life. Feeling lucky, happy and grateful for so very many of life’s gifts, I am really looking forward to the year and future ahead!
40 things to be grateful for at 40
- Health
- My husband
- Family and friends
- For time spent with amazing people who left the world all too soon
- Glitter
- The gifts that come with waking up beside the beach and ocean daily
- Lifelong friends around the world
- The ability to swim and teach others to do the same
- Sunshine and endless beach days
- Toes in the sand kind of days
- My sleep away camp experience
- Shelter, food, clean water and health insurance
- Dark chocolate, pretzels, devil’s food cupcakes, and French fries
- The ability to volunteer and make a difference in people’s lives
- My college years at Brandeis University that and those who shared it with me
- Special teachers and counselors who believed in me along the way
- Courage to take a leap and believe that the net will appear
- Travel and its many incredible gifts
- People in the medical profession and those who risk their lives to help others
- Karma
- New friends made through shared experiences
- Freedom and those who fight for the rights of others to have that freedom
- The lessons and perspective taught by natural disasters
- My asthma medications and Benadryl that help me breathe and manage allergies
- Life’s simple pleasures
- S’mores and the profound joy they bring
- Nature and all its beauty
- My USY years that taught so much more than religious identity
- The kindness of strangers
- Airplane travel that allows the world to be much smaller than we think it is
- Time spent with friends: smiling, laughing, eating, learning and just being
- Picnics, campouts, one-match fires, walks on the beach, whitecaps and sounds of the waves
- Yoga and the flexibility, strength, and piece of mind it brings
- Flip flops and the happiness they bring to my toes
- The ability to dream and attempt to make those dreams into a reality
- Laughter
- Perspective and experience
- Technology, science and the researchers who create cures and inventions to better the planet
- Adventures both large and small
- Life and all it brings
With happy toes wiggling in the Indian Ocean and lots of love from the Maldives!
Happy birthday ! Continue to Enjoy every day of your birth! Alisa
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Thanks so very much, Alisa. I really appreciate the kind words…..hugs to everyone at school and please wish Kathy a special one from me too! Thanks, Cheers, Stacey
Now THAT’s the way to celebrate a birthday! Congratulations, Stacey.
Oh, and add to your list: “The ability to write.” (You’ve got it. That’s for sure!)
—K
Thanks so much, Kathy! You’re too kind. Glad you enjoyed the post and thanks as always for the encouragement and kindness! Cheers, Stacey
Happy Birthday Stacey. Enjoy every minute of life. We only go around once so continue to make it a good one. Jean Masterson.
Thanks, Jean! Safe and happy travels to you as well! Cheers, Stacey
Belated birthday blessings, Stacey! Welcome to the years of life getting better and better. You’re fortunate to know the joys of love and gratitude and travel. Here’s to another 365-day adventure! Enjoy.
Thanks so very much, Ellen! What beautiful words…looking forward to more adventures! Thanks again. Cheers, Stacey